Comments on: Marrying a Korean? Before you sign that marriage certificate…

By: Ferdinand Valdez

Ferdinand Valdez — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 11:00:18 +0000

Dear Mam,
Good day,
I have a problem regarding of my fiance that working at the korea.She gave me some documents needed to applying a visa here at Philippines Embassy late last month but after submit it was deny.Actually she are planning and invite me to korea to be getting married her.But suddenly the embassy not approved the invitation.What solution might be work regading our situation?She got divorse last Oct.2009 by korean man fyi.

By: mila

mila — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 12:20:40 +0000

hello im mila d2 ako ngaun sa macau kasama ko ung bf korean we live here morethan two years now. pero uwi na sya after two months from now tapos ako uwi muna pinas. tapos saka nya ako kunin punta dyan sa korea promise niya un pati mother niya nkasama ko dto sa macau.alam mo marami na akong alam na korean food at pati paggawa ng kimchi marunong na ako at pati pagbabasa ng language nila at pagsulat kc tinuturuaan ako ng bf ko para pagpunta ko daw dyan may alam na akong magkorean.nakakailang talaga pero sabi mo nga mabait ang beyanan mo.una mo munang pag aralan ang kimchi kc yan ang traditional food nila.

By: mila

mila — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 12:02:20 +0000

ate maganda bang magtrabaho dyan sa koreakc my bf akong korean dt sa macau sabi nya sa akin pagbaLIK NYA NG KOREA KUNIN NYA AKO OK PO BD DYAN .THANKS AND GOD BLESS

By: toni

toni — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 13:32:28 +0000

It’s really true about koreans being the most hardworking people. I had a korean boyfriend, and we have been together for over a year. I met his family in Korea, and they all liked me. I was the first girl he ever introduced to his parents. But when he started working, things began to change. He barely had time for me. Sometimes I don’t believe him that he is just busy with “work”. A simple text wouldn’t take so much time. My korean friends tell me that I should understand and just wait for him. But I didn’t and just broke up with him. Sometimes, I am thinking if I am at fault. Is it true that most Korean women do the waiting and courting? I’m a typical Filipina and it’s not in my blood to run after men.

By: annes

annes — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 12:59:59 +0000

just know him first.. having a conversation is really a good start. just be your self.. reading more about korean culture also really helps..^^

By: annes

annes — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 12:54:28 +0000

positive yung pagtingin ng korean wife..^^

By: annes

annes — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 12:49:14 +0000

wow.. this purely based on experience. thank you for sharing! i have another look about korean style/ culture. I’m into korea, kpop and everything. I also have plans yo travel to korea.. ^^ thank you! have a nice day! HWAITING!!

By: mona liza

mona liza — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 10:04:02 +0000

i was just browsing for some information about boys over flowers, then i come across this blog and read the messages about being a korean wife. I like your story so much. I do pray that your marriage will work till the very end. I am dreaming of marrying a Korean. There is this guy that I am truly attracted to who is a hairstylist at tony and jacky in angeles, pampanga. We’ve met just once when he was assigned in quezon city last december. I was his customer and we talked a lot of things while he was doing me the haircut. I promised him that I would give him a book to study english. On the day i was supposed to come back to see him again and give the book, he texted me that he had came back to angeles the night before. I am planning to visit him and give him the book one of this day. I want to get to know him well and start from there. I don’t even know if he will like me more then a friend. How I wish and pray he would…. My friends even my relatives keep telling me that Koreans aren’t nice people, is that really true. But the Koreans that I had met seems very warm, friendly and nice… Whom should I believe?

By: Peppermint

Peppermint — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 05:43:13 +0000

This article is so true!

I’m also married to a Korean man and they are so traditional, conservative and nationalistic.

And i would like to add, Korean husbands in general, don’t want their wives to always go out (“lakwatsa / pagala-gala”).

When I was in the Philippines, I enjoyed my freedom so much. Gimik dito, party doon. Malling and coffee shop with friends, pag konti na-bored lang sa bahay, labas agad. In short, strolling around the mall and going out has always been my favorite hobby. But my freedom ended when I came here.

I love my husband, and i understand that he is just trying to protect me from possible danger luking around outside, but still…i miss going out.

By: mitch

mitch — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 10:04:15 +0000

hello po i have plan to visit in korea as tourist and hopefully marry to korean his not typical korean he graduated in stanford and he had been staying there almost 10 years in U.S , he did house hold chores as well ,hes very sweet guy we have been staying together for almost 9 months in philippines we had fight, arguing,and even attempt cool off on the goodside we even play hide and seek and even wrestling ,honestly im old enough to do such things im already 30 and his 34 i met him at club 526 launge in my work place i get attracted to him and after 2 years we met again and i decided living with him at rockwell however unfortunately buisness here in phil wasnt that good**coz hes biznz man**so he decided to go back in korea and start again for our future i feel very sad coz i thought wel stay here in the philippines for good my bf aswell does not want to go back in korea but he didand if evr his family doesnt like me may be there something wrong will hAPPEN TO US sooner,well ,as of now il do wat i can do for this relationship ……. il just think positive .tnx