Sympathies for the Lady Doctor

I’m not (totally) going to ride on the Hayden Kho scandal (aka Hayden-gate, Hayden Files) bandwagon but I really felt for one of the victims of this scandal. I’ve seen the videos yesterday but I have no intention of sharing them even with my closest friends who are less internet savvy. (Oh well, they’re all over the internet!)

I didn’t know Katrina Halili nor Hayden Kho before this. However, I’m aware of Maricar Reyes since I’d seen her in “I Love Betty La Fea” where she guested as the ex-fiancee of John Lloyd’s character. I thought she’s really charming and I was amazed to learn that she’s a doctor.

From the forums I often visit, I learned that Maricar Reyes and Hayden Kho had a relationship for a year when they were still both medical students. She said, in an interview, that they were in a serious committed relationship but they parted due to differences in their personalities.

Like I said, I’ve seen the two videos of Hayden Kho and Dr. Maricar Reyes. It was obvious from both videos that the lady doctor didn’t know that their lovemaking was being filmed. On the second video though, at around 18:18-18:28 it was as if Maricar saw something and she was trying to figure out what it was. I wasn’t really focused on the “deed” while viewing the videos since I was really thinking how she must be feeling now. I had seen much worse, like the “Red Scarf scandal” in Korea. (Three middle school students – a girl and two boys – filmed themselves while having sex and then sold copies of the video to their classmates!)

After seeing the videos, I thought that Dr. Reyes must be feeling betrayed by someone that she used to love. I read that she deleted her Facebook account. I hope she surpasses this though. She is just a victim of one mindless jerk, after all.

39 thoughts on “Sympathies for the Lady Doctor

  • May 21, 2009 at 12:24 am
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    this hayden kho is one sick puppy. he needs to see a shrink. i only saw one video and this is with katrina halili. i haven’t heard of this video with dr. reyes yet.

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    • May 21, 2009 at 5:08 pm
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      the careless whisper video… i read there are more videos… hayden kho is now called as “dr. hidden khodak” by some netizens

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  • May 21, 2009 at 4:56 am
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    I also feel for Maricar Reyes. Everything about her is ruined, only because she made love to a filthy, disgusting maniac! I am really upset at how this son of a demon Hayden Kho destroy a life. I want him peeled to death!!!

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  • May 21, 2009 at 11:44 am
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    when i fist heard about katrina-hayden video the other night i was really furious on that “sick” doctor but when i learned that maricar was also a victim of this man i was in bad mood the whole day yesterday. i don’t know her personally but i adore maricar since the day i saw her in betty la fea and i still can’t believe that someone will ruin her just like that. she doesn’t deserve this….no one does. she fell in love not only to a wrong man but to a sick man. i just hope that the respect that we have gave her won’t change just because of this filthy video. it’s not her fault and instead of putting her down like what i have read on some blogs let’s give her all the support that she needs…all the encouragement that will help her get through in times like this.

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    • May 21, 2009 at 5:04 pm
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      hi cameron! no respect lost for maricar…

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  • May 21, 2009 at 5:20 pm
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    grrhhh! i really hate hayden (hidden) kho with a passion! gosh! i really like maricar reyes and i was glad that star magic finally launched her as an actress and star magic seems to see another potential star(she has a lead role on afternoon soap called bud brothers)but that video ruined everything! i feel sorry for her esp people writing several disgusting comments @ yt…these people are sick! instead of supporting maricar, they just added to her burden by saying nasty comments! goshhh!
    i think she is really depressed now…she was betrayed…though i havent seen the video, i think she was madly in love that time that’s why she was able to give her all to damn ass hayden!
    hope she surpass this trial…

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  • May 21, 2009 at 7:51 pm
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    hayden has a very sick mind. he needs a shrink!

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  • May 21, 2009 at 8:21 pm
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    Hayden Kho Defintion—>>> MAD, SICK , PSYCHO ,MANIAC…….

    He should be Hang………………………..!!!!!!!!

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  • May 21, 2009 at 11:17 pm
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    Likewise, i’ve seen the two videos and you’ll really feel sorry for the victim. Hayden is a sick guy. Very sick… Doesn’t deserve any respect.

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  • May 22, 2009 at 6:23 pm
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    Dra. Maricar Reyes, I do believe also that you’re a good person. The only mistake you did is to love a pervert person. Hindi sya karapat-dapat mahalin ng isang katulad mo.

    Be strong! this would be a long long battle! We support your fight!

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  • May 23, 2009 at 1:41 am
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    She shouldn’t have committed premarital sex in the first place. It ruins everything especially for women. This scandal is one thing. Others includes early pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, etc. Love is patience and it can wait. So why not wait? It’ll be more exciting and love making will be greater than ever. After marriage, you can do everything you want. Ever thought of that? No regrets. No early pregnancy. No loss of dignity. Very exciting and satisfying lovemaking with nothing to worry about. Well.. I hope I’m making sense. Mind you.. I’m nothing against Maricar. I believe she is a good person who just committed a mistake. Nobody is perfect. I just hope she’ll learn from this mistake and move on. 🙂

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  • May 23, 2009 at 9:53 am
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    acccording to the news the lawyer claimed that hayden with his hayden camera was ON DRUGS whenever he was having a deed with his “catch” if this is so he really deserves to be stripped of his license as a medical practitioner because he is performing what is supposed to be taboo for doctors

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  • May 23, 2009 at 11:18 am
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    i’ve read someone posted in a forum that maricar reyes chose to keep silent will all the issue and planning to go to USA for good…don’t know it is true.
    plus, i’ve also read that though her character as one of the lead girl in bud brothers were finished, it is rumor that they gonna re-do replacing maricar =(

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    • May 24, 2009 at 1:55 am
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      oh.. too bad! I wish I can be her hero.. I’ll take her to the far far place to save and protect her. But I ain’t got powers to do that… All I can do is to wish that the following chapters of Maricar’s life will be alright..and to all the victims as well.. 🙂

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  • May 23, 2009 at 8:07 pm
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    anyway maricar is awesome in bed,nasa loob ang kulo.

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  • May 24, 2009 at 2:06 pm
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    Maricar seemed so nice and cute as an angel. Dont judge her she is just human. I feel pity for her.

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  • May 24, 2009 at 2:08 pm
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    She has both beauty and brains, and nice personality. Being with Dr. Hyden is the biggest mistake of her life.

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  • May 24, 2009 at 5:38 pm
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    this serves as a lesson that dont trust anybody while making love. anyway what i can see is hayden has a small penis for a big man. kahiya cya. maricar loves small penis haha ha

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  • May 25, 2009 at 1:47 am
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    All support for Maricar. It’s not the end of the world. There are people who understand an support you. One day it will be over.

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  • May 25, 2009 at 7:57 pm
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    Kupalhole yang si Doc Hayden, perv talaga! kung tutuusin e isang damak-mak na babae naman talaga ang pwede nyang makatalik eh! (san ka pa?? macho gwapito eh! Sino ba naman chikas ang tatangi diba) kaso bat kelangan pa niya kunan ng video?? ma-swerte sya kasi hindi sya makukulong, dahil malamang GAHASA sya sa mga convict sa loob.. ha ha!! sabog sana ang wetpaks nya sabog pati ebak!! sana lang hindi maisip ng mga kaanak ni IDOL Maricar na ipa-patay sya,dahil kung ako e isa sa mga kaanak ni Ms.Maricar… lang hya, e ipapa patay ko na yan para BUROL na lang niya ang pag usapan at hindi na yung SEX video… hehehe.. at para naman kay Dra. Vicky…. ma’am, magkano kinita mo sa pag papalabas ng video??

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  • May 25, 2009 at 11:30 pm
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    how unfortunate that this nightmare happened to a very bright and promising girl. what maricar and her family are going thru right now is unimaginable. even if i don’t know her personally, i pray that she survives this ordeal and come out of it stronger and at peace.

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  • May 26, 2009 at 1:43 am
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    guess all three of them are sex maniac
    yeah sure hayden is MAD, SICK , PSYCHO ,MANIAC. but one thing is clear people can detect pipz that are like them.

    its a just matter of social mask.

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  • May 26, 2009 at 3:07 pm
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    i’ve read the latest news, iyak ng iyak lang daw si maricar and ndi makausap…i pity her =(

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  • May 27, 2009 at 11:25 am
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    🙁 wawa naman c maricar..

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  • May 27, 2009 at 4:24 pm
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    MARICAR REYES, AYAW NANG MAG-SALITA PERO TULOY ANG TRABAHO
    ni Eric John Saluta, PM

    Hindi siguro aware si Maricar Reyes na sa-sabog ang issue ng sex scandal nila ni Dr. Hayden Kho. Dahil sa isang interview niya na lumabas
    sa abs-cbn.com, in-amin nito na naging sila talaga ni Hayden.

    Ayon sa interview, nag-date sila for a year. “It was a serious relationship,” sabi ni Maricar. “I was committed to him just like all
    my relationships. It lasted for two years. Then after a year, we parted ways. It was then we btoh realized we’re not meant for each other,”
    sabi ni Maricar.

    Aniya pa, pagk-atapos ng break up, wala na silang communication ng kapwa doktor. Na-gulat si Maricar nang lumabas ang balitang hiwalay na
    sina Dr. Hayden at Dr. Vicki Belo na um-abot pa sa punto na nag-commit ng suicide si Hayden.

    “Na-gulat ako,” reaksiyon ni Maricar. “Hindi ko alam na capable siyang gumawa ng gano’n. It made me realize na at the time na kami pa,
    hindi ko pa siya kilala talaga.”

    Mula nang sumabog ang sex video scandal, wala nang lumabas na statement mula kay Maricar. Pero ayon sa isang ka-trabaho nito,

    Maricar is showing strength and bravery. She shows up sa kanyang mga tapings. In fact, kasalukuyan siyang nag-ti-taping for Precious Hearts Romances
    Presents Bud Brothers. Kasama rin si Maricar sa cast ng Lovers In Paris nina Piolo Pascual at KC Concepcion.

    Ayon sa isang na-kausap namin, “She comes to the set ready naman. Hindi masyadong nagpa-pakita na affected siya. Out of respect, hindi na
    lang pinag-uusapan ang issue sa set. Ina-alagaan naman siya ng mga co-stars niya.”

    Kamakalawa ay na-kita si Maricar na nakipag-meeting sa Star Magic bosses. Contract artist siya ng Star Magic.

    One thing ang sigurado namin. Sa pinagda-daanang ito ni Maricar, sigurado ang suporta niya mula sa Star Magic, just like any of their
    contract artists kapag nala-lagay sa ‘di ma-gandang sitwasyon.

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  • May 27, 2009 at 4:41 pm
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    Is it true that Maricar tried to commit suicide because apparently, she was scheduled to tie the knot with her fiance, and her fiance backed out?

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  • May 27, 2009 at 5:26 pm
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    Maricar you can move on….in the first place wala naman kahiya hiya sa ginawa mo.its normal.sex is normal.I have seen the video and you Rock! si Hayden ang mahina.liit pa ng manoy niya….with his height and body structure liit nun…If its true that your fiancee backed out it his lose….ha.ha.ha

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  • May 28, 2009 at 3:55 am
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    Glad to hear that you’re goin on with your life Doc maricar.

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  • May 28, 2009 at 1:40 pm
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    Next time girls USE YOUR BRAIN!

    Thats what happens if your brain is hooked on DRUGS!

    Don’t do drugs, it will definitely ruin your life.

    Do Godly stuff, it will surely help you succeed in your

    Career.

    As for Dr. Hayden Kho as “Hayden ang camera Kho” you should

    be ashamed of yourself. You have no respect for women and

    no respect for your family name.

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  • May 29, 2009 at 2:08 am
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    let us be careful sa mga palusot ni hayden,remember he is a doctor and he can manipulate reasons why he did that, He knows all predisposing factors to his situation so he can always say he had been videod first by a woman jusifying his present state of mind.focus first on the issue of sexual abuse, the drug issue is a different story which can be tackled after he is punished for doing all these abuses! He is a disgrace to the medical profession! PRC must act decisively on this matter. So many lies he claimed to be a cosmetic surgeon? He did not undergo legitimate and accredited residency training in surgery which is 5 years more after medicine,then fellowsjip in cosmetic surgery.

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  • May 31, 2009 at 1:05 pm
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    Nado.

    I grew up looking up to Maricar Reyes. I was browsing through my old Candy Mag’s when I heard about the scandal For me, she’s an awesome person. It’s sad this had to happen for her.

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  • May 31, 2009 at 4:07 pm
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    I still adore Ms. Maricar reyes no matter what. nangyari na yun at di na mababalik ,pero sana wag siya sisihin ng mga tao, dont put all the blame sa isang tao, panagutan ni hayden ang kasalanan nya , for katrina ,dont act as if victim talaga, ginusto nya yung premarital sex yun nga lang na-video ng di nya alam. Basta I love Maricar Reyes, kaya mo yan girl, malalagpasan mo yan.Nagmahal ka lang ng totoo , I believed na di lang lust yun,nagkataon na celebrity ka kya ganun kaingay ang issue,at biktima ng sakit ni hayden kho.

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  • May 31, 2009 at 5:55 pm
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    I feel sorry for the ladies that were on these videos… I know for sure that they will still have a good future, its not their fault, its just natural having done that “sex” but they were really betrayed by the time it was being filmed.

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  • May 31, 2009 at 10:53 pm
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    wow. i truly find everyone’s comment here more mature, unlike others who gives unfair judgement…to ms. maricar, just be very strong, keep being strong. Your differences with Hayden as your past relationship proves everything and believe you deserve someone much much much better. i’ll pray for your peace of mind that you surpass this.tc=

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  • July 14, 2009 at 1:40 pm
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    wow bakit naman si Hayden lang ang may kasalanan. In the first place di ba alam ng mga babae na yan na may Vicky Belo si Hayden and yet pumatol sila at nagpagamit. Di lang si Hayden ang nagre-record ng sex videos nila, maraming lalaki diyan, di nga lang celebrity kaya di natin kilala. I also feel sorry for Hayden na nasabit siya ng ganito. Nagkamali ang tao, sana mapatawad naman natin. As for Maricar and katrina, di ba nakabuti naman sa inyo, mas marami kayong projects ngayon?
    Sana lang next time, lesson na ito sa mga partners, no video na lang and enjoy each other na lang.

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